Oral Sex Tips – How To Give Her Great Oral Sex Today

Think relaxation, seduction and preparation.

Perhaps you or your partner is a little unsure about cunnilingus.  It’s not uncommon in our society to be holding some baggage, when it comes to the performance of oral sex. 

Maybe either or both of you are concerned about odor or taste – perhaps you’ve been raised to believe the act is “dirty” or you’re self-conscious about your abilities or about your vulva.  It’s true that it can be hard for some to relax and enjoy the act, even if they really want to.

If you have found yourself in the unfortunate position described above, there are some things you can do to help yourself and your partner relax and really learn to enjoy the increased intimacy that comes from the sharing of oral pleasure.

Bathing – If it’s cleanliness or odour that concerns either or both of you, consider incorporating a candle-lit bath, a steamy, soapy shared shower, or a slow, seductive sponge bath into the foreplay. Make her feel appreciated and really take the time, while also caring for hygiene, to appreciate for yourself each part of her anatomy. Be gentle and focus on comfort and fun. Work your way up (or down!) – You don’t need to jump right in, tongue-a-swirling to make for good oral sex, in fact, many women find this kind of abruptness a turn-off. Pay attention to her whole body, kiss, touch and play, working your way slowly towards her vulva. Work your way in – Even once you get there, the all-too-common approach of vigorously attacking the clitoris will certainly result in tension and possibly withdrawal. Start with her outer lips and slowly, gently work your way in. There will be plenty of time for more vigorous ministrations once your bodies relax into one another. Communicate – Communication is a two way street. Encourage her to tell you what she enjoys, but also be aware of her body language. Is she pushing her hips towards you or pulling them away? What does her facial expression tell you? The most attentive partners always perform the best cunnilingus. Don’t overdo it – If one of you is uncomfortable, keep it short and sweet at first. Some gentle kisses or playful licks before returning to your usual sexual activities is better than avoiding the act altogether and as comfort and experience increases so can the time you spend pleasuring her.

If approached with enthusiasm and sensitivity, oral sex can be one of the most intimate and generous ways to share yourself with your partner.  It’s well worth the effort it may take to get there.
 

 

 

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